missing what you need to learn about your failures
"Very few people got out of a tough situation--a failure, if you like--by dwelling on it. You can come up with an excuse for anything, but all the time you're making excuses you're not out there doing the next thing. If you just sit around and make charts about what to learn from your failure, you're missing what you need to learn about your failures: 'get back to work."
merlin mann, on systematic #33